Showing posts with label work life family balance. Show all posts
Showing posts with label work life family balance. Show all posts

Friday, November 19, 2010

Life, Work, Family...Balance


Some days I feel like a one woman circus act, and let me tell you I can not juggle! 
I've been at my job for near 15 months, and I'm still trying to figure out how to juggle all the demands of a working mom. I have to make time for everybody, clean the house, cook the dinners, take care of the kiddos, basketball coming up, work, blog (because it's what I like to do) and live. I tried making a schedule for everything. Shopping days, cleaning days, family days...etc. It did not last! I have a hard time sticking to a schedule, well I do for work but I have to for them or they'd fire me. Can my family fire me? 
So I did what I do best...I researched this! Here are some of the tips I found and I am going to start trying.

Get up before your kids do to exercise or have a quiet cup of coffee. (I really need to do this, because a little time in the morning and not having to rush may set a different tone for the entire day)
Give yourself and your kids time to relax and unwind. (This is a must in the evenings)
Talk and email during the workday with spouse. (Hubs and I used to do this...then they blocked my email at work!!!)
Schedule lunch or dinner dates together. (We used to go on a date once a week, and we've stopped. Time to start up again!)

These tips and many great others can be found at ivillage.

I get so caught up in my days and feel so out of touch w/ my family and I need to fix that. So I'm going to try these few tips first and then add more. So do you have any more tips for me? How do you balance it all?