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Can you picture these children, alone, scared, and hurt because some other children felt the need to bully, belittle, and torture them. A child who is afraid to say something in fear of more bullying. A child feeling alone, because certainly someone has seen what is being done and not said anything. A child feeling scared because they know it's coming at any minute, or the next time they see the bullies. A child feeling hurt because this isn't really their fault!
Since I was younger the thought of someone being bullied has hit me in the heart. I was the kid in school who got along w/ everyone. I certainly had my group of friends that I hung out w/ the most, but I still associated w/ everyone. I didn't let the heavier kids get picked on, or the poor kids (by the way I was one of them) get picked on. I stood up for them, and spoke out where they were too afraid to. Did I get into fights for it....well yeah. Sure I probably bullied someone...you know that girl who liked my boyfriend and I was not about to let him break up with me for her! But it wasn't an every day bully and torture.
Recently there has been so much on the news about kids committing suicide because they are bullied so badly in school. This makes me stop and ask...did nobody see this happening? I'm not saying anyone is at fault other than the bullies themselves, but didn't anyone see any signs?
I have taught my children to be the same as I was. NEVER allow someone to be picked on!
About 2 weeks ago my daughter and I were talking about the boy at her school who has down's syndrome. Now understand that she goes to a very small school, and most of the kids get along great. As with any school they have their exceptions. She has been going to school with this boy since the 6th grade and just loves him to peices. This year they both entered high school. Scary year for all the Freshman.
From my daughters recap of the story, they were sitting in the lunch room eating. Some days Alexus and her friends will sit with this boys, and other days they sit elsewhere, but he knows he's always welcome to sit with them where ever they are. On this particular day, he had chose to sit elsewhere, and some kids starting picking on him. They were calling him stupid, ugly, and retarded. So he got up and went to sit with my daughter and her friends. Well the kids came over and continued with their idiocy act, and my daughter and her friend jumped up out of their chairs and started yelling at them. I'm sure they said some things that were not nice, I'm sure they probably may have used foul language. Because of the scene a teacher came over to find out what was going on. She proceeded to yell at my daughter and her friend for being "loud and obnoxious" to which my daughter let her know that "These kids are being mean to someone who can not defend himself in the same way we can, and we are not going to stand by and let it happen." The teacher made the other kids leave, but told the girls if they made a scene again they'd be in the office.
I am so proud of my girls! Yes, I call her friends my girls as well.
Michelle @ Momma's Pixie Dreams has challenged me to drink more water. So for every soda I drink, I have to drink water. This challenge starts on Sunday and I will keep you updated on how I'm doing.