Wednesday, January 13, 2010

What I meant to say Wednesday!

So it's now officially my favorite day of the week because I get to speak my mind! So before I go off to my rant, don't forget to head over to Chiefs grab your button and speak your mind.

I'm talking to my sister and she's telling me that she wants me to find a place for her and her fiance to come to TN and get married.....THIS YEAR! I say to her:
Sister do you think that's a good idea, 2 weeks ago you didn't want to be w/ him and said you are only w/ him because you can't afford to live on your own, and that it's easier because he pays the bills (not meaning he pays w/ his money) and you just don't want to have to do all that.
What I meant to say: Are you effing insane? This man just got a job 2 months ago after not working for 3 years. On top of that, you can barely afford your bills, electric has been cut off and you are about to lose your home, BUT you want to come to TN to get married!

On w/ the same conversation: She says they want to do it in July and when I politely remind her that we are going to FL in July for vacation has the nerve to be upset that I might miss it.
What I said was: Well we have had this planned since September, and you were initially getting married in 2011.
What I meant to say was: We've had our vacation planned and paid for as we do every single year...and you have the nerve to get upset that I planned it in the month you plan on getting married...only you planned it just a few months before.

Oh and one more from that conversation: She says she wants to do it this year so his mom can't/won't be there.
What I said was: Are you kidding me?!?!
What I meant to say is: ARE YOU EFFIN KIDDING ME?!? You don't want his mom there because she will try to control things, tell her to SHUT UP...and get a freakin back bone!


  1. Oh my you have some drama there huh?

  2. oh hang in there sis! you will get through yer crap!

    Thanks for playing!

  3. That would drive me insane. We both have issue's with our siblings huh? Talk to ya tomorrow.

  4. I spoke my mind to my sister. Once. She called me because her 14 year old girl was pregnant (8 months along) and I told her that I strongly believed that she should give up the baby for adoption.

    End of relationship, pretty much.

    I have no idea what you should do but I do know, with absolute clarity, what you should NOT do.

    Do not get involved in planning any kind of wedding. Become too busy and too uninformed, very, very fast.

    "I don't know and I am so busy."

    That is your new mantra.

    Repeat after me, "I don't know and I am so busy."

    It's the only way that you can hang on to your sister!

    Now, again, repeat after me, "I don't know and I am so busy."

    Good girl!!

    Denise Burks